Van Houten, Gray Set April 28 Wedding Date Candace Nicole Gray of Oakdale and Kyle Martin ‘Frosty’ Van Houten of Escalon have announced their engagement. The bride-to-be is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Bruce and Pamela Gray Jr. Her siblings are Evan Gray, Sarah (Gary) Acosta, Shane (Tarah) Gray The prospective groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Martin and Tina Van Houten; he has one sibling, Jeffrey (Shannan) Van Houten. Kyle surprised Candace with a long weekend trip to San Francisco for her birthday last July.